September 2019

The Freedom to Say No

“For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age…” Titus 2:11-12 Consider the Marshmallow test. Researchers took a group of five-year-olds, put them in a room with just

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Satan Attacks Us With Food

Now the serpent was more crafty than any beast of the field that the LORD God had made. And he said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat of any tree in the garden?’” The woman answered the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden, but

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The Only Time You Have is Right Now

“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Today has enough trouble of its own” Matthew 6:34 Diets suck. In fact, the notion of them is virtually intolerable because they force us to take actions we truly don’t want to take. No more cake. No more casual dinners out where you

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Why Emotional Intensity is Not a Realistic Solution for Weight Loss

I don’t blame you. You have been on this whole weight loss journey thing for a very long time with little long-term success. And the gurus keep saying the same thing: “You need to get serious!” “You aren’t losing weight because you don’t want it badly enough!” Biggest Loser-style trainers are so confusing….they freak out

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Unable or Unwilling?

“In between stimulus and response there is a space; in that space lies our power to choose our response; in our response lies our growth and our freedom.” Victor Frankl My sons like to bicker. It’s been a struggle since they were very little. My oldest boy was quite literally the golden child; his hair

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Sins with Unclear Boundaries

“The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, ‘Look at this glutton and drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and of sinners!’ But wisdom is vindicated by all her children.” Jesus Christ, Luke 7:34-35 When does your leg become your foot? Look at it. Can you draw a definitive line pinpointing the

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